Mingle IRL - Meet people

Welcome to Mingle IRL: the social club for those looking to meet new people in real life and attend amazing events in their city.

Sick of scrolling on your phone and shallow online chats? Mingle IRL is different. It's a community for people who want to meet others in person, in group and in a fun and  safe way. It's about getting away from typical social and dating apps. No pressure, just real fun with real people. 

What Makes Us Different:

In real life events: We focus on actual conversations instead of staring at screens. With Mingle IRL, you get into real-life group activities.

Friends, Not Dates: Here, it's all about making friends through group activities, not just looking for a date.

Handpicked Events: We create the best events so you can meet people who like the same things you do.

How Mingle IRL Works:

Start Easy: Download Mingle IRL, set up your profile, and check out our events.

Find & Join Events: Look through our events like hikes, wine tastings, or beach days. Pick what you like and sign up.

Chat & Make Plans: Chat with others going to the event in the app. Get to know them before you meet.

Have Fun & Make Friends: Go to events, meet new people, and make friends. Every event is a chance to meet more friends.

Lead an Event: Want to try something new? Plan your own event and invite others. Share what you love and lead the adventure.

Come to Our Next Events:

Bonfire Nights in Carlsbad
Wednesday Night Drinks & Bowling at Lafayette
Beach Day at La Jolla Shores
Wine and Music Night in Temecula
Cinco de Mayo Party in Old Town
Hiking at Potato Chip Rock


"Finally, a way to connect with people face-to-face. This app brings the joy back into socializing." - Mark, 38

"It's more than an app, it's a community. Thanks to Mingle IRL, I've made genuine friendships." - Lisa, 37

"The best part of Mingle IRL? The regulars! Our group gets bigger and better every time. It's turned into a real band of friends - always something new happening. Totally cool." - Rachel, 43