See for yourself why millions of couples worldwide have benefited from The Gottman Institute’s research-based approach to relationships. Inspired by the popular card decks from The Art and Science of Love weekend workshop for couples, this fun app offers helpful questions, statements, and ideas for improving your relationship. By downloading our free app, you can: • Explore 22 card decks with more than 1,000 flashcards • Tap the star to favorite a card • Easily tab back and forth between All and Favorites • Access more free resources from The Gottman Institute Choose Love Maps to get to know your partner better, Opportunity for great date-night ideas, or explore the Salsa decks to add some spice to your intimate life. As the world’s most trusted relationship company, our mission is to improve people’s lives through products and programs that educate, inspire, and heal. Our approach to relationships is based on more than four decades of ongoing research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. We serve couples and parents directly while providing world-class training to the professionals who support them, and we are committed to making our services accessible to everyone.
Good for counseling homework
I’m a therapist and I love using the Gottman method with my couples. This app is a great way for my couples to practice topics we talk about in session.
Great fun and revealing
Authors John and Julie Gottman, PhDs, not only write excellent books. Here they have created a wonderful app for having fun and getting to know your partner/lover/friend. Anyone who desires a better understanding of the other person in their life will enjoy these thoughtful cards. The ease of an interactive, colorful app makes them a pleasure to use. Thank you, John and Julie, for helping us all to learn and grow together!
Great, could be better
This is a great deck of cards. Once I figured out how best to use them, they’ve been helpful. I want to recommend adding in a way to make notes on each card. For now, I’m saving a screenshot and then entering the details in my diary. I would also like to see a section on how to make the other partner feel wanted.
Great tool for couples
These card decks have been so useful and helpful for my husband and I. We generally communicate pretty well but a lot of the questions really got us thinking and produced some great conversations that helped us connect in a fresh way. I really recommend this app, it walks you through all the decks and how to use them and the questions are great for any stage of a relationship.
Very Helpful to Start Conversations!
Sometimes my mind goes blank on what to ask. My family wasn't the greatest at communicating or asking questions of each other besides the "How was your day?" ones and as an introvert I'm used to people talking at me. So, thinking up thoughtful questions to ask someone while on a date or in a relationship is difficult. These has been helpful to get a conversation going since new topics can easily crop up from what's mentioned.
The most important app on my phone
This app has helped me so much in de-escalating conflicts with my partner. It’s also given me many great ideas for date nights, conversation starters, and “soft” start-ups. I have the mind of a Gottman wherever I go now!
Good for conversations
I use it in a lot of settings to get to know people better.
Now supports landscape orientation on iPad. Fixes card text on some devices where it was truncated.
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